A Taurean youngster quietly minds his own business, and the young bull will seldom embarrass you by rudeness or a smart-alecky attitude. However, if you challenge his temper by teasing him (which he can’t stand), by applying steady pressure, or demanding that he do something his mind is dead set against – he can turn belligerent. The only way out of such defiance is love. Never force. A Taurean child who’s been forced by older people too often may turn into a silent, moody, cruel adult. Remember that he can’t remain stubborn against physical demonstrations of affection. A loving squeeze or a big, friendly kiss and a cheerful smile will coax him out of his obstinacy. Always speak gently and logically. Yelling and harsh voices raised in command will just make him shut his eyes and ears. He can resist discipline and orders until doomsday. He can’t resist affection for a minute.

>> If you challenge his temper by teasing him (which he can’t stand), by applying steady pressure, or demanding that he do something his mind is dead set against – he can turn belligerent. The only way out of such defiance is love. <<

Even when he’s very young, his mind will respond to common sense. If it sounds reasonable to him, he’ll do it – but, he’ll want a practical explanation. Nothing complicated. Just the plain, honest, unvarnished truth. “You have to go to bed now because I say so,” will get you nowhere at all. That’s neither sensible nor reasonable to him. However, a softly spoken declaration like, “You have to go to bed now because we’re going to turn out the lights. If you don’t, we can’t let you go out to play tomorrow, because you’ll be too tired,” will probably get him into his sleepers and ready for the sandman. It also works to say, “Hop into your warm bed now, between your nice, clean sheets, while I tuck in your soft baby bear blanket. Then I’ll read you a little story.” No matter how stubborn he has been, he’ll almost always turn into a docile angel at those words. His is a very sensual nature, and describing the feel of things seldom fails to strike a responsive chord. Pushing him to give in to your demands is both futile and dangerous to his future personality.

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